Wednesday, October 1, 2014

How to Be Your Child's Friend

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Biblical Parenting Podcast Episode #15: How to Be Your Child's Friend


Some children are harder to relate to than others. How do you balance the authority of being a parent with the desire to have a close relationship? It's not easy sometimes but it's strategic because relationships become the vehicle through which values and spiritual truths are passed. That's the topic of this weeks episode of the Biblical Parenting Podcast. Hear more at www.biblicalparenting.org/podcasts


Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Making Family Devotions Fun

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Biblical Parenting Podcast Episode #14: Making Family Devotions Fun 



Sometimes parents shy away from devotions in their home because they don't know how to make them energizing and fun. If that's the case in your home, you'll want to listen to this episode of the Biblical Parenting Podcast. Hear more at www.biblicalparenting.org/podcasts

Thursday, September 18, 2014

The Value of Training

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Another Parenting Tip from The National Center for Biblical Parenting…
Every day you're training your children to become healthy responsible adults. Is it okay to get up and walk away in the middle of a meal? Is it acceptable to leave the table without helping to clean it up? Is it all right to eat without saying thank you to the one who prepared the meal? How will kids learn what's appropriate if you don't train them?

Unfortunately, as parents we get upset when our children need lots of correction or when they can't seem to change right away. It is true that some problems our children have take longer to overcome than others. Our response as parents is important, though. Our exasperation can damage the relationship. Firmness is important but the harshness can do more harm than good.

Kids make mistakes. Whether the errors are deliberate or accidental, children need a godly way to think in order to get back on track. Identify an issue you wish would change in one of your children. It might be arguing whenever you give an instruction or complaining when life doesn't go just right. Break the problem down and think of the alternatives you wish your child could do or think.

Talk about proper alternatives and look for positive ways to influence your child to maturity. You may have to use consequences to motivate change but don't neglect the potential of teaching new patterns of thinking, developing new skills, and giving children a vision for doing what's right.

Most of all, be patient. Training takes time and implies lots of work. You're a coach and your child is in training. Give your kids a vision for living life on a different level and they will grow into some great relating patterns.

For more ideas about working with a heart-based approach to parenting, consider Parenting is Heart Work 
by Dr Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN.

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

3 Ingredients for Passing Faith To Kids

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Biblical Parenting Podcast Episode #13: 3 Ingredients for Passing Faith To Kids



We have an awesome job as parents and passing our faith to our kids is our most important task. But how do we do it? In this episode Dr. Turansky outlines three ingredients that every parent can use to transfer faith to their children. Hear more at www.biblicalparenting.org/podcasts